Sunday, March 18, 2018

favorite things & books

 Chick-Fil-A Ice
I LOVE this soft edible ice. ($1.50!) Throw in a gallon of 3/4 unsweet, 1/4 sweet tea and BOOM!


Electric Blankets
Ben got me an electric blanket for Christmas. Right after Christmas it got real cold. So we connected the cords under the couch cushions and over the back of the couch. It's been there ever since. I'm sitting under it right now watching WVU play Marshall in the NCAA basketball tournament. I guess we'll have to put it away soon. It's the best!

Brown Noise
Brown noise? Yes, brown noise. Download this app and then try the three different colors in this order: white, pink, brown. Report back with your favorite.

These hairbands are made to not break your hair and leave creases. It's also slightly more fashionable than wearing a regular hairband on your wrist. I've used ONE since Christmas. When it stretches a bit you can run it under warm water or put your hair dryer to it for a second. Goes right back in shape.

Long Winter Jacket
OMG. I've been looking for a good long jacket for a couple of winters. I finally bought one on Black Friday. Game changer.

Toboggan
ANOTHER GAME CHANGER. I've never been much of a hat wearer, but I've obviously been missing out. When your head is warm, the rest of your body is warm. Worth the hat hair.
 
The Greatest Showman Soundtrack
It only took me forever to drag my family to the movies to see this. On day 5 of the teacher strike we were feeling a little desperate, so I guess that helps. We loved the movie and the music and listen to it all the time! Sophie is upstairs singing herself to sleep and requested to be woken up tomorrow by song.


Books I've Read Lately:

By Ben Sasse 
I've half listened/half read this book and I really, really (really)Nlike it. As a parent, I have some interesting thought processes to dig through and action steps to take. I appreciated the history in this book and a very different perspective. I will recommend this one for awhile.

By Tim Keller
I started this at the new year and went until Lent started. I will for sure come back to this.





Jaime Ivey
This was a good, honest book about real life and real redemption.


Parenting Today's Adolescent
By Dennis & Barbara Rainey
This book had a lot of good stuff to chew on as the parent of an adolescent. I will definitely revisit this often. (Although it is slightly outdated in the way of technology and social media.)

By Beth Moore
This is totally different than any of her other studies. Loved it. Looking back, I think part of it was the timing of when I read it why it meant so much to me.

By Melanie Shankle 
I've enjoyed her books as easy to read and pick up and put down.  I usually get these on kindle to read on my phone while I'm waiting at an appointment or have small chunks of time.

On my night stand:

Wednesday, March 14, 2018

the greatest field trip

No matter how you feel about the teacher strike/work stoppage that happened in West Virginia (there are lots of strong opinions), you have to admit that what happened in our state from February 22 thru March 6, 2018 was fascinating to say the least. I'm writing this here to remember. I'm not trying to stir up any trouble. This was an interesting time for our state and I learned a LOT over 13 days.

I'm a bit of a news/social media follower during big events. Add to that the fact that our family includes a lot of teachers (my mom, my sister and sister-in-law, many cousins, and I'm a teacher by education choosing to use my teaching skills in a little bit of a different way). Piled on top of the fact that I am DEEPLY GRATEFUL for my children's teachers. I'm thankful that right now, I can choose not to be in a classroom, which makes me all the more thankful for those who DO choose to be in the classroom. My kids have had some great teachers over the years. They've encouraged, challenged, taught, enlightened and loved my kids. They spend more waking hours with my children than I do most days. They deal with a LOT when it comes to behavior, the homes that kids come from, parents and the demands being put on them. So, needless to say, I am thankful for them. And can we even talk about the bus drivers - the person who drives a huge vehicle around full of crazy kids BY THEMSELVES and delivers everyone to and from school safely? Not to mention all the service personnel...

For weeks there were rumors about a strike. Insurance and pay being major sticking points with the legislature along with some other issues that were coming to the plate. Teachers and service personell planned a work stoppage for Thursday & Friday, February 22 and 23. We knew it was coming. And then it kept going. The governor made a deal with the teacher unions on Tuesday, February 27th. There was a "cool off day" on Wednesday and the plan was to go back to school on Thursday. We got a message at 6:00 pm on Wednesday that school would indeed be open on Thursday. But the teachers said they weren't going back to work until it was a done deal - signed, sealed delivered. The school closing map started turning red. And then we got a message that schools was closed again on Thursday. It was a little tense there for awhile. The superintendents were in a rough spot, but thankfully continued to close schools to not make a true strike situation where employees and families would have to make a choice whether to cross a picket line or not.

When things continued over the second weekend and our legislature looked a bit like a three-ring circus, the map was red again for the 8th school day. So Joanna and I packed up the kids and took a road trip to Charleston. She had spent her days on the picket lines here. I had spent my days at home with all the kids that wanted/needed to be here being marginally productive. And I was feeling like the kids just weren't doing much of anything. We thought this would be a great learning experience for them. So off we went. And we had the best day!


We walked around the grounds of the capitol before the masses arrived.


We stood in this line for about 1.5 half to get inside.


It never really stopped moving.

We made some pit stops along the way.

Enjoyed the "Strike Band"

And saw some friends: Mr. Garvin

Aunt Valerie

The girls

We finally made it inside and stopped to see the governor (or at least admire his door)

As we arrived, so did hundreds of pizzas (not kidding) courtesy of a San Francisco Teacher Union! And it was Husson's pizza! Even better.

We partook of the offering.

It was really a funny experience.

We made our way upstairs to the real action. Wow!

It wasn't crazy or out of control. Just loud and impressive.

We ran into my cousin, Kathy. She seriously drove to Charleston every day for two weeks.

She took the boys up to the front of the crowd via some secret hallway so they could see the crowd from the front.

And leading the cheers and chants was their English teacher, Mr. Staggers. Needless to say they were all surprised to see each other!

The girls didn't love the crowd. So we decided that since we were there, we should show ourselves around. We found a "Mystery Golden Elevator" (we didn't take a picture!!!) pushed "4" and ended up at the Law Library.


The librarian wasn't sure to think of us at first. But when we started asking questions, she gave us a bit of a tour.

These are books from before WV was it's own state. (We won't talk about that.)

Wyatt wanted to show this to Mr. Staggers to let him know he's been keeping up with his reading while we were out of school.

Back in the "Golden Mystery Elevator" we pushed "3" and the doors opened to (drumroll, please) the Supreme Court. This nice man was in the hallway. When we asked where we were and if it was ok that we were there, he told us we were at the Supreme Court and offered to give us a little tour. We took him up on his offer.

He gave us some history about the architecture and answered the kids' questions. Everyone was quite engaged in the whole experience. I was impressed - at the Supreme Court and the kids.

We also found the state quarter.

And the black bear.

We swung through the rotunda for one more check of the action.

And made our way outside just in time for the end of a rally and some speakers.




Lily giving her 55 strong cheer, just a little tired.

We unpacked our backpacks we had stuffed with uncrustabales, gogurts, peanuts and other sundries. (Not to be confused with the backpack Sophie carried around all day with 5 different kinds of slime, an ipad and headphones and two small dolls.) We had a little picnic around the waterless water fountain. It was good there was no water because everyone dropped something in it. 

We saw Aunt Sara for approximately 30 seconds. She loves a good rally.

And we made our way over to the West Virginia Museum. If you haven't been, GO! It was great. The kids really enjoyed it. We could've spend many, many more hours there, but we were tired.

After a long walk down Virginia Street to the car, we had dinner at Qdoba and drove home.

What a day! The kids loved it! They loved seeing what was happening. They loved that we really had no plan or expectation for the day. They loved exploring and they loved what they learned. They loved seeing their teachers, and their teachers loved seeing them. They loved seeing Kathy, Valerie & Sara - we were sad to miss Belinda. They loved the museum. It was the best impromptu field trip ever.

Tuesday morning, Ben and I were laying in bed lamenting day #9. I had resigned myself to the fact that there was really no end in sight. I was working at the dining room table watching Sophie climb on top of the refridgerator to "hide". I wasn't watching social media like normal when I got a text that they were MAKING A DEAL. For the rest of the day, I followed the action in both houses, and then watched as it was signed. And then we got the blessed phone call that we were going back to school TOMORROW!

And the map looked like this again

Honestly, Wednesday was a bit of a let down. My house was silent and social media went back to it's old boring self. There were no live feeds of things and no information coming from a hundred different directions. (I can't help but think this whole thing would've been so much different without social media.) But this picture: these buses that driver down our street at 2:25 pm every afternoon, was music to my ears.


What a 13 days. 9 school days. We're praying this doesn't ruin our Week 1 camp trip ....